You can only hurt the one you love because you are expecting positive feedback from the one you love.

之所以这样说，是因为,你总期待着他们给你积极地回应。

耶鲁公开课 - 心理学导论课程节选

Comus She discusses what she would like to say in response to Comus, but she doesn't then go on significantly to say it.

她思考着她能说什么去回应，但她没有说下去。

耶鲁公开课 - 弥尔顿课程节选

Some folks say to them in response, "but you know what, you, in your father's generation and mother's generation were at the table when this was drafted."

西方国家的一些人则回应说，“可是，你知道吗，你的父辈们是和我们坐在同一张桌子上,起草这个人权法的“

普林斯顿公开课 - 人性课程节选

Well, I suppose one possible response would be, "You know, you couldn't really do that.

我想可能会有人回应说,你知道,你其实并不能真的那样做

耶鲁公开课 - 死亡课程节选

I didn't really care but had to ask anyway, "how different?" And they would say, " "Well you know, we expected you to be more outgoing."

我无所谓，不过总得回应，“有何不同？“，他们会说，“这个嘛，我们以为你很外向“

哈佛公开课 - 幸福课课程节选

The answer to the question-- The question was, "Your baby's going to coo and 'ga ga, goo goo,' does it matter if you coo and 'ga ga, goo goo' back?"

这个问题是,"你的婴儿一直咕咕咯咯地说婴儿语,你也那样回应很重要吗"

耶鲁公开课 - 心理学导论课程节选

It doesn't mean of course that suicide isn't ever an appropriate response.

当然不是说,自杀从来不是一种合适的回应。

耶鲁公开课 - 死亡课程节选

I'm not saying this is fair, I'm not saying it's rational I'm not endorsing it, but empirically-- excuse me-- empirically we can see it, that somehow the attractive- the feedback from the attractive person matters more to us.

我没说，这样公平，没说这样理性,我并不赞成，但是实证上，对不起-,通过实证，我们可以明白，有时候有魅力的人-,给我们的回应对我们更重要。

耶鲁公开课 - 心理学导论课程节选