Or try to forget it, or work on forgetting it, or create a structure of forgetting; which is, of course, always a structure of remembering at the same time.

或者尝试着去忘记,说服自己去忘记,编织一张忘却的网,然而同样是这张网,却总是将那些想要遗忘的记忆留下

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