If you see a man who is not effeminate, you might ignore it or say maybe he's not really gay after all.

如果你看到不是娘娘腔的同性恋者，你可能会忽视他,或者认为他不是真的同性恋者。

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If you want to say,no,no,no,those memories are illusions, it must be because you don't think he's really Napoleon.

假如你说，不，那些记忆都是错觉，那是因为你不认为他是真的拿破仑。

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