To capture what's excruciatingly undesirable about the two, you need to think about the two in combination.

要弄明白什么是关于这两者让人难以接受，你需要考虑这两者的组合。

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You kind of have to work those things out, like establish what you are beforehand like,

你需要把事情谈清楚，比如什么事都要提前说好，

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