The goldsmith in your town writes out a note saying, I will pay to the bearer of this note so much gold, and then the bearer could be anyone.

你居住城镇的金匠写下票据并承诺,我会付给持票人这么多数量的金子,任何人都可以是持票人

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I don't want to really know that much about you, I don't want to really share anything of me with you, but I am committed to maintaining this physical attraction to you" Well, that's what Sternberg calls "fatuous love."

关于你，我不想了解太多，也不想和你分享我的秘密，但是我承诺,和你保持这种肉体关系“,斯腾伯格把这种感情叫做愚蠢式爱情“

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