So you can only hurt the one you can love but the one who always loves you sometimes has trouble showing you that they love you.

所以你只会被所爱的人伤害,但是一直爱你的人,有时不善于表达他们对你的爱意。

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Subjects who were asked to do ten positive features and then later ranked the person lower and then asked, "Why did you rank the person lower?"

被要求列出十个优点的被试,降低了所爱之人的地位,接着，当其被问到，“你为何将爱人的地位降低了“的时候“

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Oh. You can only hurt the one you love. Right?

你只会被所爱的人伤害，对吧？

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