Have people you could talk to when the--prior to the exams or— she's patting somebody next to her.
这样,在考试之前,你就能和大家一起讨论,她拍了下她旁边的人
But I think when you meet, when you actually get to meet and work with people like that
但是我觉得当你见到了、真的见到了她那种人,和那样的人工作了,
Those breasts are flat and fallen now ] speaking to her of her body]; Live in a heavenly mansion, Not in some foul sty."
你乳房已经平而扁,和她谈她的身体;,快住进天国的大厦吧,别再呆在臭猪圈,“
You've had a lot of experience with him or her.
你和他或她有很多的接触。
Give her all of your memories and beliefs and desires.
把你所有的记忆,信念和欲望都给她。
Let's say your colleague at work has just been broken up with, by her boyfriend.
假设你有个公司的同事刚刚和她的男友分手。
But at one point he just says to her, "Me and you Sethe, we got too much yesterday, we need more tomorrow."
但是那时他对她说,"我和你,塞丝,过去经历的太多,我们要更好的拥抱明天"
And it's a girl that you've already met, you've already talked to.
况且,你已经见过那个女孩了,而且你也和她说过话了。
When was it that you went out with her?
你什么时候和她在一起的?
So, you can have a kind of system of symbols that's gemlike and pleasurable and that calls you to submit to it as it does here for Oedipa, but in the end there is something more that her search will produce, and that is the moment of compassion.
所以你能够有种珍贵和令人愉快的象征系统,它能让你向它屈服,就像对Oedipa一样,不过在最后她的寻找得到了更多的东西,这就是同情的瞬间,我想提出的是眼泪贯穿了正本书。
And she described it as, think of what it's like to have a really great conversation with a friend that you wish would never end, except God's this infinitely rich friend and so the conversation ends up seeming desirable forever.
她的描述是,想象一次精彩的促膝长谈,和某个朋友,你希望它永远不会结束,上帝是位极渊博的朋友,长谈似乎充满无限魅力。
And so you know that if only you were to read these things in the envelope, you would change your mind and no longer want to go out with her.
所以你知道,只要你看了信封里的内容,你会改变主意,不再想和她约会。
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