Now,I don't in any way want to belittle the importance of the pain and suffering that happen for the rest of us when somebody that we care about dies.

我不想对我们在乎的人过世时,我们所经历的伤痛进行贬低。

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and that really challenged me to find other ways to assess their pain or what they needed.

我不得不用其它的办法，来评定他们的伤痛或他们需要的治疗。

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