This was best summarized most famously by the British poet Philip Larkin who wrote, They mess you up, your mum and dad.

这一点被一位英国诗人菲利普·拉金,很好地总结了,他写道,他们害了你,你爸和你妈

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He was sent by his father to go to college.

他爸送他到大学读书。

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When he was about your age, when he was 17 or thereabouts, maybe slightly younger than many of you, he was sent by his father to do what you are doing.

当他在你们这个年纪时，约莫，17，岁左右，也许稍微比各位年轻一些，他爸把他送去,做你们正在做的事。

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