So, given the set-up, you kind of feel what you're missing, you know, what this home pitch is-- the pitch to which you are gravitating.

那么,根据规律,你发现缺点了什么,基本的音高是,那个吸引你的音高

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It's best if you don't know what that is or even if you do mistakenly attribute it, misattribute it, to physical attraction, romance, intimacy, passion and commitment, it's love.

最好是如果你不知道是什么,甚至如果你错误认定，以为是生理吸引力，浪漫，亲密，激情和承诺，那是爱情。

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