who shift the pendulum,who focus more on their strength, are not only happier,they are also,on the long run, more successful.

改变那个比率的人，更注重优点的人，不仅更开心，从长远来看他们也，更成功。

哈佛公开课 - 幸福课课程节选

Subjects who were asked to do ten positive features and then later ranked the person lower and then asked, "Why did you rank the person lower?"

被要求列出十个优点的被试,降低了所爱之人的地位,接着，当其被问到，“你为何将爱人的地位降低了“的时候“

耶鲁公开课 - 心理学导论课程节选

A poll-- global poll, whether it's in Japan,China,United States or Europe: most people think that it's more important to focus on their weaknesses if they are to succeed.

一项全球民意调查显示，无论是在日本，中国，美国或欧洲：,大多数人认为，如果要成功,注重自己的缺点比优点更重要。

哈佛公开课 - 幸福课课程节选