But it is also connected to our desires for domination and the desire to exercise tyranny over others.
但它也与我们,对他人的支配欲,及欺压欲有关。
There's a lot of research to show that helping ourselves, in other words, working on our happiness, contributing to our wellbeing, leads us to also be more generous and benevolent toward others.
很多研究表明自我帮助,换言之,努力为自己争取快乐,有助我们获得幸福,也能引导我们对他人更加宽容和亲切。
This brings us to the final-- the issue of expectations and how we judge people is a story that could be told about individuals but it's also a story that could be told about groups.
这让我们谈到最后一个问题-,关于期望的问题,我们如何评价他人,不仅对个人有影响,对群体也会有影响。
What this often--What this can be viewed as, as an extended version of selfish gene theory, which is that to the extent you're interconnected with other people you care about them more for purely selfish reasons.
其实我们可以把这个观点视为,自私基因理论的延伸,也就是说根据你和别人,互相联系的程度,你对他人的关心更多是因为自私的原因。
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