The only relationship that will work with humans is perhaps one in which there is a balance between unchecked independence and blind obedience, And God seems to find that relationship with Jacob.

唯一与人类建立的有效关系也许是,存在着某一平衡的关系,不受遏制的独立与盲目信仰之间的平衡，上帝好像在雅各布那里找到了这种关系。

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I think, for example, in my own relationships,talks about my marriage, where I have to be vulnerable, I have to take a risk, where in fact I have to be willing to change my mind about my reading of the situation, based on my own fears and insecurities and anxieties.

举我自己的感情，我的婚姻作为例子吧，在婚姻中我会很脆弱，我必须冒险，而且，我必须愿意去改变自己,对当前状况的解读，不安全感和焦虑的影响而变得盲目。

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