And empathy has different definitions but we can simply view it as the feeling that your pain matters to me.

移情有几个不同的定义,但用简单的话来说就是,我不会对你的痛苦无动于衷。

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Once again,they don't spontaneously emerge once the painful experiences go away.

再说一次，幸福不会自动出现,并不是没有痛苦就能感到幸福。

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Because if you were dead, you'd have neither pleasure nor pain.

死了即不会感到快乐也不会感到痛苦。

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Arthroscopic surgery in one sense is a fancy example of that, a way of looking inside a joint to see what's happening inside while the person is alive and without hurting them.

关节镜手术就是一个极佳的例子,使用该技术我们可以一窥关节内部,而不影响病人的生命,也不会过分痛苦

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That won't mean at the end of the course of 1504 or 100 or 100 other courses in the workshop and sold the books that you read, it's not that you will not have painful emotions anymore.

那并不代表在1504课程结束后0,或修读完另外100门课程,然后就可以把读过的书丢了，并不是说，你就不会再感受到痛苦的情绪。

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The philosopher Spinoza thought that ... if we could only recognize the fact, what he at least took to be the fact, that everything that happens in life is necessary, then we'd get a kind of emotional distance from it; it would no longer upset us.

哲学家Spinoza认为,如果我们能够认识到这个事实，至少他认为这是事实，即生活中的一切事情都是必然的，那么它对我们的情绪影响就比较少;,它不会再让我们感到痛苦。

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