Just doing a simple thing, that again come back to Thich Nhat Hanh, talks about when you're feeling some pain, or stress, anxiety, put your hands over your heart, and breathe and say "I care for your pain and I care for your suffering."

只做一件简单的事，正如一行禅师所说，感受到痛苦，压力，焦虑时，感受到痛苦，压力，焦虑时，双手交叉，放在心口上，呼吸，自言自语道,“我在乎你所受的痛苦和煎熬“

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Because she was he's old girlfriend. And he is very sad to have lost her.

因为准新娘是他的前女友。而失去她，对于他来说是一件痛苦的事。

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