That's why the best way to get someone to do something is to plant the seed.
这就是为什么让某人做某事的最佳途径是“播种”。
If you want to get someone to do something, ask them in their right ear, say scientists.
科学家说，如果你想要让某人做某事，在他们的右耳旁边要求他们。
You do actually get something out of this... a great feeling that you've actually helped someone or contributed to their life in some meaningful way.
实际上，你确实可以从中获取些什么，比如说，你在帮助了他人或者给他们的生活增光添彩之后，你所感受到的美好。
If they perceive someone is trying to get them to do something indirectly, they feel manipulated and respond more resentfully than they would to a straightforward request.
要是他们察觉到有人试图间接指使他们做事儿，他们会感到受人控制，绝不会照你说的做，而会充满愤怒的回应你。
And when you get that sensation, you really want to hitch to that train, because you know someone might do something very personal to them.
而一旦你有了这样的感触，你就会非常想加入其中，因为你知道有人会做一些非常独特的事情。
That feeling you get when you don't want someone to do something for you because it would be a pain for them.
这种感觉就是当你不想让某些人为了你而做某些事，因为这将对他们造成伤害。
When I'm expected to do something just to please someone else or there is some expectation to do something that I don't want to do, I get those surges of negative emotions.
当我要做一些事情来取悦别人，或者别人期望我做一些我不喜欢的事情时，我心里会涌起消极的情绪，因为这不是我。
When I'm expected to do something just to please someone else or there is some expectation to do something that I don't want to do, I get those surges of negative emotions. It's not me.
当我要做一些事情来取悦别人，或者别人期望我做一些我不喜欢的事情时，我心里会涌起消极的情绪，因为这不是我。
There are three ways to get something done: do it yourself, hire someone, or forbid your kids to do it. -anonymous.
使某件工作得以完成的方法有三种：你自己做，雇别人做，或者禁止你的孩子们做。
There are three ways to get something done; do it yourself, hire someone, or forbid your kids to do it.
做成某件事有三种方法：自己做，雇人做，或者禁止你的孩子们做。
There are three ways to get something done; do it yourself, hire someone, or forbid your kids to do it.
做成某件事有三种方法：自己做，雇人做，或者禁止你的孩子们做。
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