We aren't interested in judging them, we are interested in helping them meet the deeper need.

我们对评判他人没有兴趣，我们感兴趣的是如何帮助他们满足深层次需求。

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So when people are in conflict, their feelings surface and if we are paying attention we take the 'warning light' (their feelings) as an indication that some deeper need isn't being met.

当人们在面临冲突时，他们的情感会表露出来，如果你仔细观察，我们可以将“警示灯”(他们的情感)作为一个提醒，表明他们某些更深层次的需求没有得到满足。

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So when people are in conflict, their feelings surface and if we are paying attention we take the 'warning light' (their feelings) as an indication that some deeper need isn't being met.

当人们在面临冲突时，他们的情感会表露出来，如果你仔细观察，我们可以将“警示灯”(他们的情感)作为一个提醒，表明他们某些更深层次的需求没有得到满足。

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