It focuses on the person. If you focus on the person (" you're a lousy writer ") instead of their actions, you will make them angry or defensive or hurt.
对人不对事：如果你的目标是这个人(“你是个恶心的作者”)，而不是他们的行为，你会惹恼他们，使他们心存戒备，或是感觉受到伤害。
But angry people interpret everything as a personal slight, an insult to their already fragile egos. "Being bumped into will make the inadequate person feel even more inadequate," Sinclair explains.
但是愤怒的人们会把一切都看做是一种对个人的怠慢、对本已脆弱的自我的一次侮辱。
But angry people interpret everything as a personal slight, an insult to their already fragile egos. "Being bumped into will make the inadequate person feel even more inadequate," Sinclair explains.
但是愤怒的人们会把一切都看做是一种对个人的怠慢、对本已脆弱的自我的一次侮辱。
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