My dad told me many times, starting when I was very young, that if someone wants to borrow money, you should only lend it to them if, in your head, you're actually willing to give it to them.

从我很小的时候起，父亲就常常告诫我，有人找你借钱的时候，除非你真心愿意，否则就不要答应。他一直是这么做的，我也听从了他的建议。

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My dad told me many times, starting when I was very young, that if someone wants to borrow money, you should only lend it to them if, in your head, you're actually willing to give it to them.

从我很小的时候起，父亲就常常告诫我，有人找你借钱的时候，除非你真心愿意，否则就不要答应。他一直是这么做的，我也听从了他的建议。

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