But surprise feedback - criticism that seems to come from nowhere, about an issue we haven't perceived ourselves - is the hardest. We're far more likely to be defensive.

但是出其不意的反馈- - -似乎不知从哪儿来的批评，而且是我们自己一直未能察觉到的事情- - -是最难接受的，远远超过了我们能够抵御的范围。

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But surprise feedback - criticism that seems to come from nowhere, about an issue we haven't perceived ourselves - is the hardest. We're far more likely to be defensive.

但是出其不意的反馈- - -似乎不知从哪儿来的批评，而且是我们自己一直未能察觉到的事情- - -是最难接受的，远远超过了我们能够抵御的范围。

youdao