Let them ask the questions - By allowing them to lead the conversation, you might "luck out" and get a bunch of "yes or no" questions.
让孩子们提问——允许孩子主导谈话,你会很走运,因为你会得到一堆“是或不是”的问题。
Warwick: Yes, but I don't know how to carry on a conversation in Chinese. Yet.
沃里克:对,可是我不会用汉语与人交谈,现在还不会。
私下聊天,-是。
Questions that can be answered with a yes or no do not lend well to further conversation.
能用“是”或“不是”回答的问题不能引发深入的讨论。
If you just say YES while answering a question, you end a conversation.
当你回答一个问题时,如果只是说“是的”,那你就结束了交谈。
If you're trying to get to know someone, don't ask superficial questions or yes/no questions. Ask questions that will open up conversation.
如果你真心想结识某人,别问这些肤浅、或者是非问答题,问点有建设性的吧。
Oh, Eve! Yes, I'm here! Not quite where I used to be, but that does not hinder our conversation!
是的,伊芙!是的,我在这儿!不是在我过去常在的地方,但这不会妨碍我们交谈!
It is particularly useful because it is an “open ended” question. It can’t be answered by “yes” or “no” so it is helpful in keeping a conversation going.
特别是,由于是开放式的问题,无法用“yes”与“no”来作答,所以有助于延续对话的进行。
Researchers have found that to keep a conversation moving along, unshy people instinctively use conversational feedback such as "Yes, I agree" or "How interesting.
研究者发现为了使交谈进行下去,不害羞的人会本能地使用一些交谈反馈,比如“是啊,我同意”或者“多有趣啊。”
Watching football is another risky strategy, during which 92 percent of men are not prepared to entertain a conversation, opting instead for a quick 'yes. '
还有一个冒险的策略是选择男人在看足球比赛的时候说事,92%的男性在这时候都不愿谈话,而选择不假思索地说“好”。
Ask questions that require more than a yes or no answer and you may open the door to invite the other person to keep the conversation going.
问一些需要不只“是/否”回答的问题,这样你就敞开大门邀请别人参与,让对话进行下去了。
Play the conversation over in your mind and consider how you will respond if your manager says yes, no or maybe.
脑子里进行对话练习、考虑如果经理对加薪表示同意、不同意或待定时分别要做出什么反应。
"If they would only purr for 'yes', and mew for' no ', or any rule of that sort," she had said, "so that one could keep up a conversation!"
“要是它们只在‘是’的时候发出呼噜声,而在‘否’时候发出喵叫声,或有任何类似的规则,”她曾经说道,“那人与猫至少可以继续交谈!”
Tracy: Yes they are all quite common phrases in everyday conversation. Let's listen to the idioms.
这些包含数字一的成语可是大家在日常口语中经常用到的。
At this point, she's given you every single sign that this is the conversation she's been dreaming about, and of course the answer is going to be yes.
这时,她已经给了你各种信号,这正是她所梦想的谈话,当然答案会是可以了。
Yes, the manager has an obligation to listen to your gripes and dissatisfactions, but to dominate the conversation with these messages absolutely affects your work's value in the manager's eyes.
虽然,经理有义务去聆听你的不满意和抱怨。但是,总是主动和经理谈论这些问题无疑会影响你在他们眼里的工作价值。
Yes, the manager has an obligation to listen to your gripes and dissatisfactions, but to dominate the conversation with these messages absolutely affects your work's value in the manager's eyes.
虽然,经理有义务去聆听你的不满意和抱怨。但是,总是主动和经理谈论这些问题无疑会影响你在他们眼里的工作价值。
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