Because anger is often fueled by guilt and shame, making people feel bad about their behavior doesn't work either-it reinforces the angry person's sense of victimhood.
因为愤怒常因内疚、羞愧这样的情绪火上浇油，使人们对自己的行为大为不满，更加深了发怒人的羞愧情绪。
The conflict between complying (to show our love) and not complying (to assert our freedom) creates frustration, and frustration leads to anger.
是服从爱还是保持我们的自由？两者之间的矛盾使人沮丧，进而使人发怒。
I will make your house like that of Jeroboam son of Nebat and that of Baasha son of Ahijah, because you have provoked me to anger and have caused Israel to sin.
我必使你的家像尼八的儿子耶罗波安的家，又像亚希雅的儿子巴沙的家。因为你惹我发怒，又使以色列人陷在罪里。
The LORD hath accomplished his fury; he hath poured out his fierce anger, and hath kindled a fire in Zion, and it hath devoured the foundations thereof.
耶和华发怒成就他所定的，倒出他的烈怒。在锡安使火着起，烧毁锡安的根基。
And again the anger of the LORD was kindled against Israel, and he moved David against them to say, Go, number Israel and Judah.
24：1耶和华又向以色列人发怒，就激动大卫，使他吩咐人去数点以色列人和犹大人。
Therefore thus saith the Lord GOD; I will even rend it with a stormy wind in my fury; and there shall be an overflowing shower in mine anger, and great hailstones in my fury to consume it.
所以主耶和华如此说，我要发怒，使狂风吹裂这墙，在怒中使暴雨漫过，又发怒降下大冰雹，毁灭这墙。
Therefore thus saith the Lord GOD; I will even rend it with a stormy wind in my fury; and there shall be an overflowing shower in mine anger, and great hailstones in my fury to consume it.
所以主耶和华如此说，我要发怒，使狂风吹裂这墙，在怒中使暴雨漫过，又发怒降下大冰雹，毁灭这墙。
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