那种情况下，在你哭诉、责怪和抱怨生活不公之前，自己必须要好好做一番努力才行。

In those cases, you need to put some serious effort into yourself before you cry, blame, or complain about the unfairness of life.

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每个行为背后都有正面的动机(NLP语录)，每一个动机背后都有本能的需求。了解这些，我们会少抱怨和责怪。

Every behavior has a positive motive (NLP Quote), and every motive has an instinctive need. Knowing this, we never complain or blame.

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每个行为背后都有正面的动机(NLP语录)，每一个动机背后都有本能的需求。了解这些，我们会少抱怨和责怪。

Every behavior has a positive motive (NLP Quote), and every motive has an instinctive need. Knowing this, we never complain or blame.

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