我试着说一些这样的话:“你记性真好”或者“你显然对这个问题非常了解。”
" I try to say things like, "You have a good memory" or "You obviously know a lot about this subject".
但是我们还没能来得及说一些这样圆滑得体的话,里奇就说。“你知道,这菜只需要加一点点酱油。”
But before we could be so diplomatic, Rich said, "You know, all it needs is a little soy sauce."
当一个人被迫或被引诱去说一些言不由衷的话时,我们经常能看到这样的观点转变。
One would consequently expect to observe such opinion change after a person has been forced or induced to say something contrary to his private opinion.
你可以会说一些类似像这样的话:“我在想你是不是一切都好呢?”
You could have said something like, "I'm wondering whether everything is OK."
说一些如“我们不会让我们的孩子那么粗鲁”这样看起来微不足道的话,意味着他不仅仅是在设想了,他也期盼这个发生。
Saying something as seemingly minor as, "We wouldn't let our kids be that rude" means he's not only imagining it, he's expecting it to happen.
为了让联系更明显,对自己说一些类似这样的话,“这个图书管理员有短的金发,戴深色眼镜,使她看上去显得很聪明”。
To make the connection explicit, say something to yourself like, "the librarian has short blond hair and dark glasses that make her look smart."
说一些能让自己惊喜的关于自己的事情。让她知道她要去重新认识你。这样的话,情书更像是恋爱,有一定的风险。
Say something that surprises you about yourself. Let her know that terms. In this way most, a love letter is like love itself. There must be risk.
然而在实际上,很多的新标识设计师连制作就制作不出来,就是说一些标识设计的软件都不怎么会用,那这样的创意和形象有必要把他们做好吗。
However, in fact, a lot of new logo designers even make the production, that is logo design software is not how could that creativity and the image it is necessary that they do a good job.
当她说一些你不认可的事情也不要去指责或者冷漠,这样她怎么去信任你把心里话都告诉你?
When she said that some of the things you do not approved by the accused or not to go cold, so her how to put their trust in you have to tell you the truth?
现在我们已经不这样做了,而这样的开场白就相当于说:“感谢大家听我说一些你们根本不会听的话。”
We are now past that mark and opening with this line is akin to saying: "Thank you for hearing me say something that you are now not listening to at all."
本来认识到我的感受,说一些”哇,这项是一个大工程,你来做真了不起”这样的话会更好。
It would have been better to have acknowledged my feelings, by saying something like, "Wow, this looks like a huge job, it's great that you're doing this."
当一个人被迫或被引诱去说一些言不由衷的话时,我们经常能看到这样的观点转变。
One way in which the dissonance can be reduced is for the person to change his private opinion so as to bring it into correspondence with what he has said.
当一个人被迫或被引诱去说一些言不由衷的话时,我们经常能看到这样的观点转变。
One way in which the dissonance can be reduced is for the person to change his private opinion so as to bring it into correspondence with what he has said.
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