既要能被他人接受，又想在工作以及和其他人的交往中寻找自我，两者完全不相匹配，又如何兼得？
We find ourselves in jobs and relationships that are a clear mismatch out of our need to be accepted.
为了创造较易被他人接受的在线个人角色，许多Facebook用户隐去了可能对他们而言极为重要的生活侧面。
Many Facebook users mute aspects of their lives that might be very meaningful to them for the sake of creating acceptable online personas.
一周后，一位年轻的姑娘回来，向我讲述了当拒绝一个朋友的请求后，她才真正清楚地了解到自己对被他人认可和接受的需要程度。
One young woman who came back the next week and Shared how she was really able to identify her need for approval and acceptance from others when she denied a request from a friend.
人们想要作为一个集体中的一部分，能够感觉到被他人所接受被他人所爱。
We want to be part of a group and to feel loved and accepted by others.
人们追求时尚可以使他们看起来更美更好地被他人所接受。
People pursue of fashions can make them look better and well accepted by others.
在某种意义上而言，这是一种矛盾，由于为了获得影响力，你首先要接受被他人所影响。
It's a paradox, in a sense, because in order to have influence, you have to be influenced.
在某种意义上而言，这是一种矛盾，由于为了获得影响力，你首先要接受被他人所影响。
It's a paradox, in a sense, because in order to have influence, you have to be influenced.
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