第二是要知道你在这段关系里以及这个情人处想得到什么，并确认这些事情都一致，然后再选择花时间与某人在一起。

The second is to know what you are attracted to, understand what you want in a partner and a relationship, and confirm that these things are in agreement before you choose to spend time with someone.

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第二是要知道你在这段关系里以及这个情人处想得到什么，并确认这些事情都一致，然后再选择花时间与某人在一起。

The second is to know what you are attracted to, understand what you want in a partner and a relationship, and confirm that these things are in agreement before you choose to spend time with someone.

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