因为我们不会对自己花很多时间，常常力求确保自我意义的平衡。
Because we don't spend enough time on ourselves and helping to ensure that we have a balanced sense of self.
人们都希望自己的存在展现某种价值来实现自我意义，或者需要得到尊重。
People all hope that the own existence emerges a certain value to carry out themselves meaning, or need to get a respect.
然而，尽管我们有自我意识，我们同时也失去了内在的自我价值感或自我意义。
And yet, despite our sense of self-importance, we, simultaneously, have lost touch with an internally generated sense of self worth or meaning.
自我的意义在于什么时候考虑自尊，除了平衡完整的自我意义之外的自尊，自尊不是去认为自己是最好的和能做任何事（更方便定义为自恋和自我中心），自尊是建立在哪方面做的好，哪方面做得不好的基础之上。
It is this sense of self that you need to consider when thinking of self-esteem. What is self-esteem except a sense of self that is balanced and whole?
他自我提高、努力工作的传奇故事本身就能写就一部引人入胜的传记，但却承载着比这更有意义的东西。
His tale of self-improvement and hard work would make a fascinating biography in its own right, but represents something more than that.
意义被定义为一种超越自我的取向。
Meaning was defined as an orientation to something bigger than the self.
对我来说，做志愿者让我的生活从完全的以自我为中心变成对他人有意义。
For me, it changes my life from being purely self-centered to being something with meaning for others, too.
一份卓越的生活是：(1)你可以做任何你乐在其中的有意义的事；(2)你可以拥有一份自我能控制的灵活的作息表；(3)你可以赚取足够的认同及补偿。
A remarkable life is one in which: (1) you do something meaningful that you enjoy; (2) you have a flexible schedule that you control; and (3) you earn recognition and good (enough) compensation.
在演说快结尾的部分，他赞扬了那些“在高于自我的事业中寻找意义”的美国战士。
Near the end of his speech, he extolled those in America's armed forces who “find meaning in something greater than themselves.
我想鼓励你，每天做一点有意义的事情，用双手尝试些新鲜活，学习些新知识，拓展自我。
I'd like to encourage you to make a little meaning every day, to try your hand at some creative endeavor, to learn something new, and stretch yourself.
同时可能是故意的，甚至是明目张胆的反对传统，坚持多必然不够好，同时找寻自我的意义而不是让社会支配他们的生活。
It may mean being deliberately, even brazenly, counter-culture by insisting that more is not better, and by finding your own meaning rather than letting society dictate your life to you.
相似的，如果你所有的朋友都能够自我推动过着有意义的生活，你怎么能够平凡？
Similarly, if all your friends were living self-empowered and awesome lives, wouldn’t that rub off on you to live extraordinarily?
相似的，如果你所有的朋友都能够自我推动过着有意义的生活，你怎么能够平凡？
Similarly, if all your friends were living self-empowered and awesome lives, wouldn't that rub off on you to live extraordinarily?
假如生物将繁殖所需的能量用于自我修复，则失去了进化意义。
It makes no evolutionary sense for an organism to invest energy in self-repairing that could be devoted to reproduction.
你将会陷入自我的无意义追逐中，并且不管你做什么，你也永远找不到你所追求的圣杯。
You'll be trapped in the ego's rat race forever, and no matter what you do, you'll never find the Holy Grail that you're seeking.
你将知道，在你自我感觉良好的时候去找她并通过一次有意义的谈话之后，你会由衷的赞赏和信任这个人。
You will know you have connected when you find yourself feeling good about yourself and feeling deep admiration and trust for this person after a meaningful conversation.
但是，因为她这些幻想和行为的意义和目的并不是她自我意识的一部分，不能真正愈合她的创伤。
But because the meaning and purpose of her fantasies and behavior were not part of her consciousness they could not produce true healing.
但是，因为她这些幻想和行为的意义和目的并不是她自我意识的一部分，不能真正愈合她的创伤。
But because the meaning and purpose of her fantasies and behavior were not part of her consciousness, they could not produce true healing.
但是如若在我们定义自我或者我们希望证明自己与众不同的事上遭遇失败，那么它将意义非凡。
But if we fail at the thing by which we define ourselves and at which we hope to prove special, that's serious.
虽然它在某种意义上有其一定价值，除非你想变得喜欢自我反省和分析，对于大多数人，它只是麻烦的制造者罢了。
And while it has some value if you want to be very introspective and analytic, for most of us, it just bogs us down.
如果我们有更多的自我约束且能朝着对我们真正有意义的事情努力并取得成功的话，我们的生活将会是什么样子呢？
How would our life be if we had more self-discipline and were able to work towards and achieve things that really meant something to us?
自我反省下为什么这些事情对你的生活充满意义，你怎么能表达你的感谢。
Reflect on why those things are beneficial to your life, and how you can show your appreciation.
即使每个人都认为这些东西几乎没啥实际意义，但是这仍然是我们做自我介绍，体现自身价值的主要方式。
Even though everyone knows that these things basically mean nothing, it still winds up being the main way we introduce ourselves and communicate our value.
从这个意义上来说，所有的比赛都是对自我的挑战，让自己做到最高和最好。
In this sense, all competition is self-competition, rising to one's highest and best.
例如感受自我价值就是情感需求，以及感到被别人欣赏，受到信任，得到理解，受到关怀，能够被倾听，感到有意义等。
And examples of emotional needs is to feel valued, to feel appreciated, to feel trusted, to feel understood, to feel cared for, to be listened to, to feel appreciated, to feel significant.
林肯是一个更为传统意义上的自我奋斗者——一个神话般的成功开拓者的活生生的体现。
Lincoln was self-made in the more conventional sense—a walking, talking embodiment of the frontier myth made good.
解决的方式不在于像清教徒那样进行自我约束，或者是进行无意义的持续辩护。
The solution doesn't lie in puritanical self-restraint or in a defensive insistence that there's nothing wrong.
做最好的自己就是把你的所有变成对自己有意义的每一天。也即理想自我。
To be your best self is to put everything you have into making each and every day meaningful to you. It is to be your ideal self.
做最好的自己就是把你的所有变成对自己有意义的每一天。也即理想自我。
To be your best self is to put everything you have into making each and every day meaningful to you. It is to be your ideal self.
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