惹恼我的不是他说什么而是他说话的方式。
It's not what he said offended me but the way of his saying.
使我惊奇的不是他说的内容，而是他说话的方式。
What surprised me was not what he said but the way he said it.
泪流满面的妻子倾诉道：“倒不是因为他说的话不对，而是他说话的方式。凭什么要对我那样大喊大叫？”
"It's not so much what my husband says, "a tearful wife confides, "as the way he says it. Why dose he have to yell at me?"
使我吃惊的不是他所说的内容，而是他对我说话的方式。
What surprised me was not what he said, but the way he said to me.
使我吃惊的不是他所说的内容，而是他对我说话的方式。
What surprised me was not what he said, but the way he said to me.
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