伟大而高贵的宽宏大量的美德毫无疑问需要的不仅仅是自制的能力，因为即使是最软弱的人也有自制力。
The great and exalted virtue of magnanimity undoubtedly demands much more than that degree of self-command, which the weakest of mortals is capable of exerting.
他讲述了自己因对钱的贪欲而发疯，打了宽宏大量的母亲。
He told of slapping his generous mother when he was crazy with greed for money.
但这就意味着宽宏大量的精神几乎不复存在，而恐惧将于事无补。
But that means a wide generosity of spirit rarely seen and fear will not help.
孔子说：“居于上位而不宽宏大量，行礼时不恭敬认真，遇到丧事而不悲哀，这种人还有什么可以观察的呢？”
Confucius said, "What is there for me to observe of a man if he is not broad-minded when he is in high position, not reverent when he is performing the rites, and not sad when he is in mourning?"
孔子说：“居于上位而不宽宏大量，行礼时不恭敬认真，遇到丧事而不悲哀，这种人还有什么可以观察的呢？”
Confucius said, "What is there for me to observe of a man if he is not broad-minded when he is in high position, not reverent when he is performing the rites, and not sad when he is in mourning?"
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