或许你认为说不意味着拒而不纳，例如，我的一个客户的妻子被调到她公司的另一个部门，但她喜欢她原来的团队，并不想调职。

Perhaps you are worried saying no means closing doors. For example, one of my clients’ wife was asked to transfer to another department in her company.

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例如，你的妻子告诉你她感情受到了伤害，而你关注的是情况事实而不承认她的感受，那么她的心情可能更加不好。

For example: if your wife is telling you about her hurt feelings and you focus on the facts of the situation and don't acknowledge her feelings, she will likely become even more upset.

youdao

例如，你的妻子告诉你她感情受到了伤害，而你关注的是情况事实而不承认她的感受，那么她的心情可能更加不好。

For example: if your wife is telling you about her hurt feelings and you focus on the facts of the situation and don't acknowledge her feelings, she will likely become even more upset.

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