我们生活在一个我称之为“外向理想型”的价值体系中——一个无处不在的信念，即理想的自我是善于交际的，在聚光灯下感到舒适的。
We live with a value system that I call the Extrovert Ideal—the omnipresent belief that the ideal self is gregarious, and comfortable in the spotlight.
样品问题的解决方案和50章的问题，是理想的自我测试。
Sample problems with solutions and a 50-problem chapter are ideal for self-testing.
第一种，即理想的自我是我们经常在社交媒体上分享的自我。
This first self, the idealized version of ourselves is what we frequently tend to share on social media.
当然，一旦我们实现了理想的自我，那么一定还有一个更强大的目标来替代。
And of course, once we do reach the ideal, there's always a greater vision that replaces it.
为了能够成就理想的自我，人们会在自己的生活中和别人的生活中寻求答案。
To be able to ideals of self-achievement, people will in their own lives and the lives of others and find out.
基于未来理想的自我来判断自己，这么做带来的最大的弊端是你忘记了你原本就是完整的。
The biggest problem with judging yourself based on your ideal future self is that you forget that you're already whole.
不过欺骗也有一个好处：就像埃里森教授说的，它可以激励人们拉近真实的自我和理想的自我的距离。
But there is an upside to deception: it may inspire one to, as Professor Ellison put it, "close the gap between actual and ideal self."
你被嵌在未来(作为行动结果的那个应该的自我，或者理想的自我)和与那个未来相去甚远的现在的夹缝中。
You're caught between the future (your ought or ideal self as a result of the action) and the present which is not this future.
高呼“我能行”，其实就是要强化心中那个积极的、理想的自我形象，以战胜和排除消极的自我形象的干扰。
They are actually trying to intensify the active and ideal self-image in their hearts by shouting 'I can' so as to conquer and eliminate the distraction from the negative self-image.
我们设计的理想自我或形象与我们现在的样子大不相同。
We design our ideal self or an image that is quite different from what we are now.
在亚洲人的人格观念中，个人主义或独立的自我并不是理想的。
In the Asian concept of personality, there is no ideal attached to individualism or to the independent self.
为了确定哪种新职业最适合她，我的朋友需要先做一些自我考察，然后找一份包含这三种理想状态的工作。
In order to determine which new career will be best for her, my friend will need to do some soul-searching first and then look for a job that will include these three ideals.
做最好的自己就是把你的所有变成对自己有意义的每一天。也即理想自我。
To be your best self is to put everything you have into making each and every day meaningful to you. It is to be your ideal self.
超越自我有两个从属的元素：良心和自我理想。
The superego has two subparts: the conscience and the ego-ideal.
这可能是因为酒精所引起的注意力近视让我们所有的缺点都消失了，这样我们就会觉得离理想自我更近了。
This may be because the attentional short-sightedness induced by alcohol makes all our shortcomings float away and so we feel closer to our ideal selves.
树立远大理想，你将发现自己拥有得天独厚的条件，并伴随着魅力四射自我形象和健康的自尊心。
Choose the high road and you will discover the unmatched advantage that comes with an empowering self-image and a health self-esteem.
许多人都有一个不好的习惯，喜欢用还没有实现的理想自我来判读自己。
Many of us have a bad habit of judging ourselves based on our ideal self that hasn't actualized.
我的问题是：你是否也曾基于理想中的自我来判断自己呢？
My question for you: Have you ever judged yourself based on the ideal you want to achieve?
尽管如此，21世纪人为男人提供了一个真正的机会，使之成为理想中的做回自我的男人。
The 21st century offers men a real opportunity to live up to the ideal of being our own men, though.
产品(你所提供的东西)要符合顾客的需求，正确的自我定位能使你完美地匹配理想的客户。
Shape your product (what you offer) to anticipate customer demand, and develop your identity to make the best fit with desirable clients.
有两种跟自我实现相关的折磨：与纪律相关的折磨和由于生活不理想而产生的折磨。
There are two types of torment related to our personal fulfillment: the torment associated with discipline and the torment arising from our regrets for having lived an unsatisfactory life.
所以个人档案往往描述了一个理想中的自我，一个具备了他们想要达到的品质的人(比如我会水肺潜水)或者他们曾经有过的条件(比如一份工作)。
So profiles often describe an idealized self; one with qualities they intend to develop (i.e., "I scuba dive") or things they once had (i.e., a job).
我认为一个人能够追求的最高理想就是自我的完善。
I think that a person can be the pursuit of the highest ideal is self perfection.
通过他的教导我意识到家具设计是一个展现自我、分享生活体验的方式，也是使我实现个人理想的途径。
Through him I found that designing furniture was a way for me to express myself, share my life experience, and a way for me to challenge my ideals.
工作本身不是你的目的，它必须服务于你的目的，是实现你自我价值和人生理想的途径。
Job must serve your purpose, as a way to realize you self-value and life dream, rather than it becomes the purpose itself.
工作本身不是你的目的，它必须服务于你的目的，是实现你自我价值和人生理想的途径。
Job must serve your purpose, as a way to realize you self-value and life dream, rather than it becomes the purpose itself.
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