我无意否定依赖性自尊心或独立性自尊心。

I mean to assign no negative value to either dependent or independent self-esteem.

youdao

但是，当依赖与独立性自尊的关系失衡，获得表扬和优于别人成为人们获取自我尊重和自信心的主要来源时，问题便不期而至。

However, the problem arises when the balance is distorted, when gaining approval from others and being better than others become the primary source of our self-respect and self-confidence.

youdao

但建立自尊的一方面是，实际上确定并承认与他人的独立性。

But one of the many aspects of building self-esteem is in fact, identifying and acknowledging our separateness in relation to others.

youdao

但建立自尊的一方面是，实际上确定并承认与他人的独立性。

But one of the many aspects of building self-esteem is in fact, identifying and acknowledging our separateness in relation to others.

youdao