假如我们有了小孩，我们会真正陷入困境。
有了小孩之后就退出工作的妇女是很常见的。
It was common for women to quit a job after they had a baby.
以为我们一有了小孩，就不得不放弃自己的生活，安居乐业，举步不前。
This idea that you have to resign from life and settle down the moment you have children.
当你结婚和有了小孩时，要把你的父亲当作是你家庭的一部分。
When you marry and have children, include your father in many of your family functions.
我想告诉朋友，有了小孩后，她将再也不能按照惯例做出决定。
I want my friend to know that every decision will no longer be routine.
很遗憾，不过这是事实。有了小孩真的会改变你对这些事的看法。
I'm sorry, it's true. Having children really changes your view on these things.
你为人父母时，家里有了小孩，看着他们彼此分享，难道你不是很高兴么？
When you're a parent, and you have little kids in your home, you enjoy watching them share with each other?
这种情况很大程度上是由于更多的妇女参与到了劳动力之中，直到有了小孩才停止工作。
That was largely on account of more women joining the labor force, and continuing to work once they had kids.
她说；关于母亲节，我当母亲的，是因为有了小孩的原因，所以母亲节理所当然也有她们的一份。
About mother's Day, she says, "My children are the reason I'm a mother so mother's Day would have to involve them."
我与米尔卡的关系，一直非常强烈的，亲密无比，倒是担心，有了小孩之后，我们关系还能保持这样吗？
My relationship with Mirka was always very strong and intense, and we worried a little that if we have kids, can we keep that?
有3个好动的小孩到处跑，就够让我忙的了。
With three active little kids running around, there was plenty to keep me busy.
当我有了第一个孩子时，朋友们提醒我说养小孩是很花钱的。
When I had my first baby friends warned me that children were expensive.
现在你有了五条原则：把自己当成小孩，迈出一小步，“拉伸”自己，做出贡献和养成习惯。
So there you have it: feel like a kid, take a step, stretch yourself, make a contribution, and get in a habit.
16岁那年，她已经是州里最好的辩手，19岁结婚，22岁有了第一个小孩。
She was the state's top debater at 16; at 19, she was married; at 22, she had her first child.
你有小孩的话，你还得知道，由于亲眼目睹了家暴行为，他们也需要时间来疗愈原所留下的那种心理创伤。
If you have children, they need time to recuperate from the trauma of witnessing abuse.
法新社通讯社报道有一mortar在一个投票站起火，然后袭击了闹市，造成7人死亡，其中4个为小孩，23人受伤。
Agence France-Presse news agency reported that a mortar had been fired at a polling station, but hit a crowded market. Seven people, four of them children, were killed and 23 wounded.
她说道，“在解释为什么不想我的小孩做某事的问题上，我已经有了很大的改进，而且当他们做对了事情的时候我会给予称赞。
I've got much better at explaining why I don't want my children to do something, and at praising them when they do something right.
克鲁格可能是为了戏剧化效果夸大了数字，不过尽管每个父母都强烈否认自己有特别偏爱的小孩，但科学研究显示，克鲁格所说的离真相并不远。
Kluger may be exaggerating the figures for dramatic effect - but despite every parent's vehement denial that they have a favourite child - scientific research shows that he is not far off the truth.
那时我有了两个小孩，咖啡改变了我对早晨的看法。
With two young children at the time, it changed the way I viewed my mornings.
我想他们很多人都梦想能收养小孩，但是他们做梦都想不到有一天真的就收养小孩了。
I think many really dreamed of doing this but it wasn't something they ever thought would become a reality.
他也是，40岁的人了，家里有4个小孩，还有一个也在路上了。
So was he, a married man of 40 with four children and another on the way.
有天晚上，她的儿子(早已不是小孩子了)接到传信，来到母亲身边：她受了惊吓，引发了严重的精神性休克。
One evening, they had called her son - he was already quite grown up - to his mother's side. A fright had brought on a serious mental shock.
约5%的小孩子有口吃，但其中大多数长大后就恢复了。
想象下如果你有了个小孩，你喂养他，这意味着你的小孩，他的体重将达到六个泰坦尼克号那么重。
Now imagine if you gave birth to a little baby, and you had to feed this thing. That would mean that your child, you would expect it to gain the weight of six Titanics.
想象下如果你有了个小孩，你喂养他，这意味着你的小孩，他的体重将达到六个泰坦尼克号那么重。
Now imagine if you gave birth to a little baby, and you had to feed this thing. That would mean that your child, you would expect it to gain the weight of six Titanics.
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