关于解释和情感的流质性，有一系列累计的可以简易化的智慧：无论在任何情况下，你都能完全自如的控制你的反应。
About this fluidity of interpretation and emotion, there has accumulated a bit of oversimplifying conventional wisdom: in any situation you have complete control and flexibility in how you respond.
情感上的反应：当他们想到或者看到所爱之人时，大部分恋人声称”当我看见佳人，无法控制住脸上的微笑”，以及“当他一离开房间，我便开始想念。”
Emotional: When they think about or see the person they love most lovers report “an uncontrollable smile comes over my face whenever I see her,” and “I miss him when he leaves the room.”
那些在这几小时内被允许睡一觉的志愿者，其控制情感的大脑反射区显示出较少的反应活动；相反，其控制理性思考的大脑区域则更加活跃。
Those allowed to sleep in between showed less activity in the areas of the brain linked to emotion.
其他的人会把他们对情感的控制看作是顽固、没有感情，认为他们对情绪反应迟钝，在浪漫的事务中是含蓄的。
Others will view their emotional control as hard and unfeeling, regarding them as unresponsive to their moods and undemonstrative in romantic affairs.
其他的人会把他们对情感的控制看作是顽固、没有感情，认为他们对情绪反应迟钝，在浪漫的事务中是含蓄的。
Others will view their emotional control as hard and unfeeling, regarding them as unresponsive to their moods and undemonstrative in romantic affairs.
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