噢亲爱的罗布，听起来你好像不能控制你的孩子们啊。
Oh dear Rob, it sounds like you have no control over your kids.
你如何控制那些不守规矩的孩子？
如果你总是对你的孩子失去冷静，那么你就无意中为孩子树立了缺乏情绪控制力的典范。
If you consistently lose your cool with your kids, then you are inadvertently modeling a lack of emotional control for your kids.
当然，如果你控制自己的情绪，孩子们也会学习这一点的。
Of course, if you suppress youremotions, your children learn from that, too.
这是我每天都为之奋斗的一部分，因为在孩子遇到困难时你很难控制不去伸出援手，但是如果你这样做了他们就会失去一次自己帮助自己的机会。
Another one that I struggle with every day. It's very tempting to help your children in a way that robs them of the opportunity to help themselves.
那如果你此刻在你孩子的面前已经怒不可言，这时你发现你根本无法控制自己情绪也无法作出“停止”手势时，你该怎么办呢？
What if you are so angry at your child that you are ready to strike him and you cannot find the restraint to use your STOP gesture?
如果你有孩子或者宠物，要适量控制和你一起睡的次数——或者坚持分开睡觉。
If you have children or pets, set limits on how often they sleep with you - or insist on separate sleeping quarters.
在学前控制孩子们看电视比在上学之后要容易一些。因此，你现在就应该着手制定一个限制看电视的模式。
Controlling viewing is easier to do during the preschool years than during the school years, so you should initiate a pattern of restricted television watching now.
通过家长控制，不止是你微软也会知道你的孩子都访问了那些网站。
Via Parental Controls, not only you but also Microsoft will monitor all the visited URLs of your offspring.
你建议我侵犯国际舰队的中立以控制那些曾在IF效力的孩子，这令人不能容忍。
It is outrageous of you to suggest that I jeopardize the neutrality of the International Fleet in order to take control of children who have completed their military service with the IF.
通过建立新的家庭规则和坚定的对孩子的日常行为做一些小的改变，你就能够控制孩子看电视过多及其造成的影响。
By creating new household rules and steadily making small changes in your child's routine, you can curb screen time and its effects.
你是否被别的家长投以轻蔑的眼色就因为你的孩子没有自我控制能力？
Have you ever had to give other parents a dirty look because theyglare at you like you're a horrible parent because your child has noself-control?
当你的孩子在表现出生气或者失去控制的时候使用这种方法，对她说：“当你在喊叫的时候我不能够明白你的意思。”
Use when your child is outwardly exhibiting anger or is out of control.
如果你得不到充足睡眠的原因是事情不在你的控制之内——比如一个不规律睡觉的孩子或者是一个医疗过程——那么集中注意力在你可以控制的事情上。
If you aren't getting enough sleep because of things outside of your control - such as a child who is not sleeping regularly or a medical condition - focus on the things that are within your control.
你可以向孩子们解释，植物不仅是制作食品所必要的，而且对于控制洪水也是不可少的。
You can explain to them that plants are necessary not only for food but also for controlling floods.
这让你有衣物的控制权，而你的孩子可以感到他们有衣服的所有权。
This gives you the control of appropriate attire and makes your child feel that they have ownership of what they wear.
你的唯一选择是教导你的孩子自我控制，让他们知道在公共场所应该如何表现和抵抗他们的冲动。
Your onlyalternative is to teach your young child self-control so they know how tobehave in public and resist their impulse urges.
你见过有几个人能像邓这样，拥有法律赋予的绝对权力，而他的孩子却不能继承世代交替的控制权？
How many times have you seen anyone with such absolute power put into law that his children could not maintain a generational grip on power?
在有些事情上需求不断的缠绕着你的孩子，控制你的同事，需求促使你和任何想要和你见面的人见面，让你想要变的越来越有钱并且有一辆拉风的车。
The need to constantly badger your kids about things, or control your co-workers, or meet with everyone who wants a meeting, or be wealthier and wealthier, or own a nice car.
还需要记住的是，管教你的孩子不等于控制她们——而是意味着你要教育他们如何自我控制。
Remember, too, that disciplining your child doesn't mean controlling her - it means teaching her to control herself.
其实你不一定要给孩子用牙膏，除非他的饮食中含有大量的甜食，这时你应该尽量控制和避免。
You don't really need to use toothpaste with your young child unless his diet includes lots of sugary foods - which you should avoid anyway.
你不是小孩子了，能不能学着控制一下自己的脾气？
You are a grown-up person, can't you just command your temper?
你越是控制自己不对别人指手画脚，当他们需要指导的时候，你的孩子反而会主动向你讨教，并且采取你的建议。
The more you refrain from giving unsolicited advice, the more likely it will be that your children will ask you for advice when they need it and will follow that advice if it is reasonable.
周一发表的一项研究讲到，如果你没有其他办法限制孩子呆在屏幕前的时间，就把电视遥控器和游戏机控制器藏起来。
Hiding the TV remote and games console controller is a good thing to do to kids if it's the only way to limit the time they spend in front of a screen, according to a study published Monday.
像“你怎么总是这么鲁莽”这类的话会使孩子们感觉他们无法在自己冲动的时候控制自己，但是更好的评价可以是这样的“你对你弟弟的态度确实过分了，可是我相信你不是有意要冲他发脾气打他的。”
Comments like "You always work yourself up into such a frenzy!" will make kids feel like they have no control over their outbursts. A better statement is, "You were really mad at your brother.
家长控制可以远程管理-所以，如果你的孩子在另外一台Mac，你可以从另外一台控制他。
Parental Controls can be managed remotely - so if your child is on another Mac you can deal with it from your one.
控制看电视的时间，因为长时间看电视会影响你的孩子对学习的专注能力和很难专心学习。
Control TV time as uncontrolled TV can hinder your child's ability to concentrate and focus on studies.
别让孩子尝试控制你的决定，例如，你选择谁保母。
Don't let your child try to control your decisions, such as who you've chosen as a baby-sitter.
别让孩子尝试控制你的决定，例如，你选择谁保母。
Don't let your child try to control your decisions, such as who you've chosen as a baby-sitter.
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