我们可以如此解释，如果他们先替我们多想想，我就不会跟他们过意不去，反过来，我们如果老是抱怨他们，他们也不会主动过来了解我们的想法，现在再谈谈规则之四。

We can explain that we'd like it if they helped more, or we can complain that they never help, which takes us to rule No 4.

youdao

请你别生气，我不能守约，实在过意不去。不过，我今天晚上要参加一个重要的会议。

Don't be angry. I'm sorry I can't keep our date, but I have an important meeting tonight.

youdao

我觉得很过意不去。因为我打坏了你的花瓶。我能赔偿你吗？

I feel terrible, but I've just broken your vase. Can I make this up to you?

youdao

我觉得很过意不去。因为我打坏了你的花瓶。我能赔偿你吗？

I feel terrible, but I've just broken your vase. Can I make this up to you?

youdao