所有这些强加在自己身上的额外工作都是因为我们不信任别人——检查、跟进、亲力亲为，因为我们不相信别人能把事情做好——或者觉得他们根本就没做。
All this is extra work we load onto ourselves because we don't trust people—the checking, following through, doing things ourselves because we don't believe others will do them properly—or at all.
我们所知道和相信的很多东西都是别人教给我们的，我们经常接受这些信息而不花太多时间去思考。
Much of what we know and believe has been taught to us by others, and we often accept this information without spending much time thinking it over for ourselves.
“如果我们都不相信自己创造的东西，别人怎么能相信呢？”顾说。
"If we don't believe in what we produce, how can others believe in it?" said Gu.
我们一般相信自己管理自己的能力，但却不信任别人管理其自身的能力。
We generally trust our capacity to manage ourselves, but we do not trust the capacity of others to manage themselves.
我相信我们来到地球上的共同目的就是以毫无保留的真挚感情去关爱别人。
I believe our whole purpose on this earth is to love others with complete and true love.
不管怎么说，我们还是尽量避免撒谎，否则将给人留下一个坏印象，让别人很难再相信我们。
Still, as far as possible, we should avoid lying as it creates a bad impression and makes it difficult for the other people to trust us.
相信我们：如果你无法控制进度，那别人就会来控制你的日程。
Believe us: If you don't control your schedule, someone else will control your schedule for you.
我相信我们中的很多人永远都不会停止和别人的比较。
I doubt most of us are ever going to stop comparing ourselves with others.
我们这样想想：你第一次相信陌生人，然后你被别人背板了，那么之后你不再信任别人是合乎情理的。
Think about it like this: the first time you trust a stranger and are betrayed, it makes sense to avoid trusting other strangers in the future.
当然，我们对自由意志相信的程度有差异，而这也同样会影响我们在多大程度上准备帮助别人。
Of course we each differ in the amount we believe in free will and this may well affect how much help we are prepared to offer others.
从根本上讲，我们从小就学会相信别人总是知道的更多。
Basically, from a young age we're taught to think that someone else always knows best.
当我们不相信我们对别人来说有吸引力的时候，这个过程就会中断——就像格鲁求的玩笑：即使俱乐部想要我们成为他们的一员，我们不想属于那个俱乐部。
The process gets thrown off if we can't believe that another persons finds us attractive - like the Groucho Marx joke where we don't want to belong to a club that would have us for a member.
我相信我们人类会花很多的时间重复着过去——错误，行为举止的模式，我们和别人交流的方式。
I believe that we humans spend a lot of time repeating our past - the mistakes, the patterns of behavior, the way we communicate with others.
也许我们太天真，认为奥巴马有足够的力量同国会较量，承担起重要的固碳任务。但是，我始终相信，如果别人能做到，他就能做到。
Maybe it was naïve to think Obama might be strong enough to take on Big Carbon's stranglehold on the Hill, but I still believe if anyone can, he can.
问题是,如果我们一味贬低自己,最终别人也会相信我们所说的是对的.
The trouble is, if we persist in putting ourselves down, eventually people start to believe we’re right.
我们无法相信会有如此多的人会想呆在别人的房子里。
We couldn't believe large numbers of people would want to stay in other people's places.
教授相信它可以展示，这些人的脑子里有相关的化学反应，导致他们不能认同别人，这区别于我们可以认同他人。
The professor believes he can show that there are chemical reactions going on in such people's brains which prevent them from being able to identify, as the rest of us can, with others.
如果我们感觉可能被拒绝或批评，我们所能做的只能是尽力使别人相信，我们不再受过去所影响。
If we sense we may be rejected or criticized all we can do is try to convince others that we're no longer impacted by our past.
问题是，假如我们根本就不相信陌生人，我们就永远不会知道别人的可信度。
The problem is that when we don't ever trust strangers, we never find out how trustworthy people in general really are.
当有人教唆我们不要相信别人，恐惧立足于自己的意识，我们就变得更容易被别人控制。
When you're taught to distrust other human beings, fear gets a foothold in your consciousness, and you become much easier to control.
换言之，我们把怀疑的好处给了别人，因为我们想相信别人我们的。
In other words, we give the benefit of the doubt to others, because we want to believe what they're telling us.
到目前为止，我们大多数人基本都不再相信电视公司——因为我们认为他们是来控制别人，挑拨离间，来搞破坏的。
By now, most of us had a fundamental mistrust of the TV company - feeling they were manipulative, divisive and disruptive.
我相信韦翰极其希望在宫廷里找份差事做做。要是再没有别人帮帮忙，我们便很难维持生计了。
I am sure Wickham would like a place at court very much, and I do not think we shall have quite money enough to live upon without some help.
这个男孩告诉我们相信自己和别人的重要性。
A boy that shows us the importance of believing in ourselves and others.
我们常常相信别人的成功是由于某种特殊的奥秘或是由于某种机遇。但成功极少是如此神秘的。
Too often we believe what accounts for other's success is some special secret or a luck break. But rarely is success so mysterious.
堂诘诃德提醒了我们,那就是,如果我们只有在确保可信的情况下才相信别人,只有在保证能得到回报的情况下才去爱,只有在知道学习是有价值的时候才去学习,那么我们就摒弃了人性的本质.
Quixote reminds usThat if we trust only whenTrust is warranted, love onlyWhen love is returned, learnOnly when learning is valuable,We abandon an essential feature of our humanness.
我们应该关心别人胜过自己。不要相信在你处于困境时离你而去的人，患难的朋友才是真正的朋友。
We should think more of others than of ourselves. Don't trust those who leave you when you are in trouble. A friend in need is a friend indeed.
我们应该关心别人胜过自己。不要相信在你处于困境时离你而去的人，患难的朋友才是真正的朋友。
We should think more of others than of ourselves. Don't trust those who leave you when you are in trouble. A friend in need is a friend indeed.
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