像“你怎么总是这么鲁莽”这类的话会使孩子们感觉他们无法在自己冲动的时候控制自己，但是更好的评价可以是这样的“你对你弟弟的态度确实过分了，可是我相信你不是有意要冲他发脾气打他的。”

Comments like "You always work yourself up into such a frenzy!" will make kids feel like they have no control over their outbursts. A better statement is, "You were really mad at your brother.

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老师：帕普，你的作文“我的小狗”跟你弟弟写的一样。你是不是抄他的了？

Teacher: Pappu, your composition on "My Dog" is exactly the same as your brother's. Did you copy his?

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老师：帕普，你的作文“我的小狗”跟你弟弟写的一样。你是不是抄他的了？

Teacher: Pappu, your composition on "My Dog" is exactly the same as your brother's. Did you copy his?

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