当我们年幼之时，就首先体验到这样的一种虚空无措的恐怖。而我们有在三四岁的时候，学会了一种逃避的方法：我们懂得了如何去撒谎。

We first experience the terror of being invalidated when we are small children, but by the time we are 3 or 4 we have learned a way of avoiding it: we have learned how to lie.

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当我们年幼之时，就首先体验到这样的一种虚空无措的恐怖。而我们有在三四岁的时候，学会了一种逃避的方法：我们懂得了如何去撒谎。

We first experience the terror of being invalidated when we are small children, but by the time we are 3 or 4 we have learned a way of avoiding it: we have learned how to lie.

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