它正是那样一种感觉：让你感到自己一无是处、让你觉得你没有能力做成一件事、甚至让你觉得再去尝试的话自己就是一个十足的傻瓜。

It's that feeling that you're no good, that you can't do it, and that you were a fool for even trying.

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没错，当你把奥布莱恩杯举过头顶时，你会想起那些把你说得一无是处的人，你会感觉自己终于得到了证明和肯定。

Yes, there will be a sense of validation and vindication when you raise the trophy above your head, remembering everyone who ever said you wouldn't amount to anything.

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然而，如果孩子们在没有爱心、没有自尊感的环境中成长，他们就会感觉到自己并不可爱，而且一无是处，料想着总要被人欺骗，被人利用，被人蔑视。

If however, children grow up without love and without feelings of self-worth, they feel unlovable and worthless and expect to be cheated, taken advantage of, and looked down upon by others.

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然而，如果孩子们在没有爱心、没有自尊感的环境中成长，他们就会感觉到自己并不可爱，而且一无是处，料想着总要被人欺骗，被人利用，被人蔑视。

If however, children grow up without love and without feelings of self-worth, they feel unlovable and worthless and expect to be cheated, taken advantage of, and looked down upon by others.

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