但我们真正想知道的是：对别人的感觉感同身受，那会是怎样？
But what we really want to know is: how would it feel for me to feel what they are feeling?
它能给人温暖的感觉，显示你对别人的尊重。
It can give people warm feelings, show your respect to others.
别人探问我的抑郁症病情，这让我对自己的感觉更加糟糕。
These people who questioned my depression only succeeded in making me feel worse about myself.
你比任何应征者都了解自己，所以不要让别人说服你做去对你感觉没把握的事情。
You know who you are better than any recruiter, so don't let someone convince you to take something you don't feel certain about.
专家们认为这种梦反映出你对于自己外貌以及别人对你的感觉很忧心。
Experts believe that this dream reflects your anxieties about your appearance or how others perceive you.
我可以教你们一些具体的做法，然而，最有效的方法让孩子们自己拿主意，并且注意观察孩子们对每一次的选择都有什么感觉以及他们的选择会使别人有怎样的看法。
There are some specific ways that I teach, however the most powerful way is to allow our children to make choices based on how each choice makes them feel and how their choice will make others feel.
感觉不到你可以在生活中跟别人诉说烦恼（对，因为我不会有你这样的麻烦啊。） ，尴尬的是：在餐馆吃饭谁付呢。
Not feeling you should share some of the stressors in your life (‘Yeah, wouldn't I like to have your problems’), awkwardness re: who should pay at a restaurant.
有时候是别人对我们做的事，有时候是我们对于自己做过或没做过的事情的自责，或者我们曾经有或者没有过的感觉。
Sometimes it is what others had done to us; sometimes it is our own self-reproach for things we had done or not done, feelings we have had or not had.
感觉不到你可以在生活中跟别人诉说烦恼（对，因为我不会有你这样的麻烦啊。） ，尴尬的是：在餐馆吃饭谁付呢。
Not feeling you should share some of the stressors in your life (‘Yeah, wouldn’t I like to have your problems’), awkwardness re: who should pay at a restaurant.
但是现在我对我自己跟别人的这点不同已经感觉舒服多了，对展现真实的自己，用自己的方式说话也感觉自在多了。
But I feel better about my difference now. I feel more at ease presenting myself as I am, speaking in my way.
如果你的朋友告诉你他对别人根本就没什么感觉，相信他们。
So if your friends tell you there just wasn't any chemistry, trust them.
但实际上，人们依旧重视那种“对别人的好心行为感觉亏欠”的美德。
But in reality, people also value the virtue of "feeling a debt of gratitude for others' kindness."
奥巴马有把他对自身价值的感觉传达给别人的能力，也许是这种能力帮助他规划出了让选民们如此信服的富有能力与自尊心的形象。
"Obama's ability to convey his feelings of self-worth to others may have helped him project the image of competence and confidence that voters found so compelling," Zeigler Hill told the Digest.
研究表明生理厌恶与心理厌恶两者存在联系，柯蒂斯说：“如果坐在气味糟糕的法庭里，判决会更严厉，”她说，“你对别人恶行的厌恶感与生理上的感觉仅仅联系了起来。”
Studies have even shown a connection between physical disgust and moral disgust, Curtis said. "If you sit people in a room with bad smells, they punish more severely," she said.
我感觉自己和别人太不一样，对我来说，将来必定是没有希望的。
I felt like I was so different to everybody else, and there was definitely no future or hope for me.
当别人对你的幸福表达一种真正的关心时，你难道不觉得感觉很棒吗？
Don't you feel good when someone expresses a genuine concern for your welfare?
对这种现象的解释是: 当人们感觉到他们需要采取某种行动时,这种感觉的程度会随着身边人数的增多而减少,因为我们会从别人的不作为中得到某些社会信息, 使我们也不想作为,哪怕是在危险的情况下.
The explanation is that people’s sense that they need to do something, even in situations of peril, decreases with more people because we take our social cues from the inactivity of others.
并非不准我爱丹尼尔，而是我们对彼此的感觉不是能够轻易与别人分享的事。
It's not as if I'm not allowed to love Daniel, but the way we feel about each other isn't something that we can share easily with anyone else.
你有一种天赋，知道什么会让别人对世界以及他们自己的感觉变得更好。
You have a gift for knowing what will make another person feel better about the world and themselves.
你能取得多大的成功主要靠你自己，但成功还要靠别人对你的感觉。
第一次，我对自己感觉良好，因为我在做事情，而不是是因为别人告诉我我做的很好。
For the first time, I feel good about myself because I'm doing something, not because someone told me I was doing good.
凝视陌生人的脸过久，有两种事情极有可能发生：自己会感到不舒服，同时也会感觉到陌生人并不喜欢被别人凝视。对大多数人来说，这种社会意识是与生俱来的。
Stare at a stranger's face for too long, and two things will likely happen: you'll feel uncomfortable, and you'll get the sense that the stranger doesn't like it.
你只有在别人对你的感觉最有限的了解。
You have only the most limited understanding of what others feel about you.
说实话。别人真的可以感觉到你在说谎，这会让他人对你或他们自己产生不信任感。说实话是一件超赞的事情。
Tell the truth. People really do sense it when you lie to them, and it makes them distrust you or themselves. It's the darndest thing.
你不能改变别人对你的感觉，所以无需尝试。只要过自己的生活，过的快乐。
You can't change how people feel about you, so don't try. Just live your life and be happy.
我想说，如果你对你的恋爱感觉很好，而这种关系也是健康的，别人怎么议论管它干嘛？
But I would say if you feel good about a relationship and it's healthy, who CARES about what anybody says?
他们重复和确认。重复和确认别人对你说过的话会让人们感觉到被承认。而这就是人们所想要得到的。
They repeat and reinforce. Repeating what someone said to you and reinforcing it will help people feel validated. And that's all people want - validation.
他们重复和确认。重复和确认别人对你说过的话会让人们感觉到被承认。而这就是人们所想要得到的。
They repeat and reinforce. Repeating what someone said to you and reinforcing it will help people feel validated. And that's all people want - validation.
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