第二种策略就是多想一想你配偶的优点，还有你们婚姻中那些积极的事情。
The second strategy is to think about your mate's positives and the positives in your marriage.
结果就是，在婚姻的过程中，女人更能意识到退出冲突或是用消极的策略是既不有效，也不有利的。
As a result, over the course of marriage, women may be more likely to recognize that withdrawing from conflict or using destructive strategies is neither effective nor beneficial.
这篇文章接下来会讲到一些具体的策略，以保护你的婚姻不被他人介入。
The remaining parts of this article cover specific strategies for protecting your marriage from attractive alternatives.
另一方面，婚姻权利平等的拥护者们，认为他们的问题是策略上的—“主旨”，而不是问题的实质。
The defenders of equal access to marriage, in other words, think their problem was tactical - "messaging," not substance.
数学分析的结果表明，如果婚姻双方在情感上是相似的，则他们有一个‘最优努力策略’，其结果是幸福、长久的婚姻关系。
The results of the mathematical analysis showed when both members of union are similar emotionally they have an "optimal effort policy," which results in a happy, long-lasting relationship.
我们揭示出，如果双方有类似的情感属性，最优努力策略将带来长久幸福的婚姻。
We show that, when both partners have similar emotional attributes, there is an optimal effort policy yielding a durable happy union.
诚然，不诚实可能成为婚姻矛盾的一种很好的短期解决策略。
Granted, dishonesty can be a good short-term solution to marital conflict.
Wilfore说她的团队选择了同反对同性婚姻法案的战斗很大程度上是因为投票没有结束，“我们从不在选民面前提及同性婚姻”她说，“这是策略”。
"We would never bring gay marriage up before the voters, " she says. "This is [our opponents'] strategy."
现代心理学家们都醉心于“一赢再赢”的解决办法，而在婚姻里头，成功往往在于采取“一输再输”的策略。
Modern psychologists are taken with the "win-win" solution. But in marriage, success resides more in "lose-lose" solutions.
这种丈夫流动、妻子留守的家庭策略使得农村婚姻和家庭的情感满足功能大大削弱。
As a family strategy, the marital relation of a floating husband and left-behind wife weakens considerably the role of affectionate satisfaction in rural marriages.
这桩婚姻属于满洲宫廷策略的一个手段，以期将被征服国家更紧密的维系在其统治之下。
This marriage was a measure of policy on the part of the Mantchoo court, with a view of more closely attaching the conquered nations to its dominion.
现代心理学家们都醉心于“一赢再赢”的解决办法，而在婚姻里头，成功往往在于采取“一输再输”的策略。
Modern psychologists are taken with the 'win-win' solution. But in marriage, success resides more in 'lose-lose' solutions. Out of these, both parties can win.
现代心理学家们都醉心于“一赢再赢”的解决办法，而在婚姻里头，成功往往在于采取“一输再输”的策略。
Modern psychologists are taken with the 'win-win' solution. But in marriage, success resides more in 'lose-lose' solutions. Out of these, both parties can win.
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