当妻子或者丈夫看了别人一眼，恐惧、嫉妒、焦虑、愤怒和仇恨就会产生；
When the wife or the husband looks at anyone else, there is fear, jealousy, anxiety, anger and hatred;
在婚姻中不应该有猜谜游戏或者“我丈夫（或妻子）应该知道什么让我快乐”这种的潜在情绪。
There shouldn't be any guessing games in a marriage, or underlying feelings of “my husband (or wife) should know what makes me happy.
而且家里有个婴儿的情况下，丈夫和妻子平时在暴吵一顿以后采取的讲和方式，这时可能就用不了了，或者很不方便用了。
And with an infant in the house, the usual way husbands and wives make up after a bickerfest may be off-limits, unthinkable, or just plain old inconvenient.
在学校里，我们学习了在南方种植园的奴隶制度的暴行，学习了当一个丈夫要离开妻子或者妈妈离开孩子的时候他们的伤心。
In school we learn about the atrocities slaves endured on Southern plantations, and the sorrow they faced when a husband was separated from a wife, or a mother from a child.
在很多情况下，妻子和丈夫们仅仅因为他们的工作能为家庭提供好的健康保险而做着不喜欢的工作或者只为获得报酬。
In many cases, wives or husbands are keeping a job that they really don't like or get enough pay for simply because their job offers good insurance for health coverage for their family.
“丈夫不掌控妻子的话，可能被罚款或者泡进村里的池塘，”她写道。
"A husband could be fined or dunked in the village pond for not controlling his wife," she writes.
于2001年通过的离婚法赋予了妻子一项权利：如果她们的丈夫虐待她们或者有外遇，她们可以提出离婚。
New divorce laws passed in 2001 gave wives the right to divorce their husbands for abusing them or having extramarital affairs.
又或者丈夫可能惯常打断妻子的话因为他“没有叫停的约束”，又担心错过他等待的小灵感——奥洛夫说。
Or a husband might habitually interrupt his wife because he "doesn't have the brakes to stop" and is afraid of losing his skittery thoughts if he waits, says Orlov.
很多人因为太累没有精力疼爱自己的孩子，关爱自己的丈夫或者妻子。
Many of you are too tired to love your kids, too tired to love your husband, too tired to love your wife.
随着时间过去，妻子们也更少地使用破坏性策略或者退出，与此同时丈夫们的行为停留在以往的年月不变。
But over time, wives were less likely to use destructive strategies or withdraw, while husbands' use of these behaviors stayed the same through the years.
根据该研究，如果妻子的受教育程度高于丈夫，且丈夫比妻子大五岁或者更多，那么应该是最理想的搭配。此外，两人都没有婚史。
According to the study, the couples with the best chance are those where a woman with a superior education marries a man who is five or more years older than herself.
有时候，这种人是一个不好的丈夫或者妻子，有时候，他嘲笑他人的付出，还有的时候，这种人只走自己的路，只看前车之鉴。
Sometimes this person laughs at the expense of others. And sometimes this person merely takes their eyes off the road and rear-ends the car in front of them.
根据该研究，如果妻子的受教育程度高于丈夫，且丈夫比妻子大五岁或者更多，那么应该是最理想的搭配。
According to the study, the couples with the best chance are those where a woman with a superior education marries a man who is five or more years older than herself.
其中，有300对确实需要帮助：丈夫想要离婚，妻子却不想走，或者反之。
Of these, 300 are truly desperate: the husband wants to leave the wife and the wife doesn’t want to go, or vice versa.
因为我觉得如果我在地铁或者1个小时公交车上想跟我的丈夫、妻子或朋友交谈，我觉得我就应该那么做，但在韩国很多老人会开始责备。
If I want to talk on the subway or 1 hour bus ride with my husband, wife, or friends, I feel like I should be able to, but in Korea many old people will start scolding.
花些时间认真去想想，温柔地对待你的丈夫或者你的妻子或那位孕育了你并给你生命的女士。
Take time to really think about and cherish your husband or wife or that lady who carried you in her body and gave you life.
因此，除非丈夫给予明确的许可，或者在妻子未得到丈夫确凿的许可之前，她不应当进行任何捐赠(或者以其他方式花销)。
Therefore, until and unless the husband does not give explicit permission or she is not convinced of his permission, she should not make any donations (or spend it in any other way).
在你抱怨自己的丈夫或者妻子之前，想想迫切需要伴侣的人。
Before you complain about your husband or wife, think of someone who's crying out for a companion.
它能建造一个意象并赋予那意象以延续性、永久性，称之为阿特曼或者无论你喜欢叫什么，它能记起丈夫或者妻子的脸庞并紧抓住不放。
It can build an image and give to that image a continuity, a permanency, calling it Atman or whatever you like, and it can remember the face of the husband or the wife and hold on to it.
比如，一个妻子由于丈夫回家晚了或者忘记结婚周年纪念日而生气。
For example, a woman might get angry at her husband for coming home late or forgetting their wedding anniversary.
结果表明，如果丈夫比妻子年龄大九岁及以上，或者结婚时男方不到25岁，离婚的机率会翻番。
It found that a husband who is nine or more years older than his wife is twice as likely to get divorced, as are husbands who get married before they turn 25.
最后是你的丈夫，你的妻子，你的男友或者女友。
And finally your husband, your wife, your boyfriend or your girlfriend.
再比如，在英格兰北部，水手的妻子们通常会朝离港的船只扔旧靴子或者旧鞋子，以保佑自己的丈夫平平安安。
In north England for instance, the wives of sailors would usually toss old boots or shoes at the departing ships to ensure their husbands' safe journey.
婚姻的艺术并不是期望丈夫是一个如带着光环的圣人或者妻子是带有羽翼的天使，它不是寻求彼此的完美。
The art of marriage is not expecting the husband to wear a halo or the wife to have the wings of an Angle, it is not looking for perfecting in each other.
科学家们将这一问题称作“伴侣介入”情况，也就是当妻子或者女友介入了丈夫和他的朋友之间。
The scientists have labelled the problem 'partner betweenness' whereby a wife or girlfriend comes in between her husband and his friends.
科学家们将这一问题称作“伴侣介入”情况，也就是当妻子或者女友介入了丈夫和他的朋友之间。
The scientists have labelled the problem 'partner betweenness' whereby a wife or girlfriend comes in between her husband and his friends.
应用推荐