聪明人既知道如何接受也知道如何拒绝别人的进言。
An intelligent person not only knows how to take advice, but how to reject it.
要学会拒绝，学会如何告诉别人你不再答应做一些事情。
Learn to say no, and learn how to tell people that you can no longer commit to doing something.
我们可以爱任何一个人，无论别人是否爱自己，也可拒绝任何一个人的爱，无论别人如何爱自己。
We can love any one person, whether some people love themselves, but also may refuse to love any one person, no matter how other people love their own.
由于缺乏社交技巧，他们常常被别人拒绝，拒绝给予他们甚至更少机会，去学习如何与别人交往。
Because of the lack of social skills, they are often rejected by others and rejection gives them even fewer chances to learn how to interact with others.
这就是别生硬地说“不”显得很重要的原因，我们应该学习的是该如何有效地拒绝别人。
That's why it's so important not simply to say no, but to learn to do so effectively.
这就是别生硬地说“不”显得很重要的原因，我们应该学习的是该如何有效地拒绝别人。
That's why it's so important not simply to say no, but to learn to do so effectively.
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