我开始发觉有时候他的话确实有道理，但总是从我的角度出发来讲问题而不考虑自己的需要或者情感，而我却在这个争吵的过程中贬低了自己。

I recognized that sometimes he really did have a point, and that insisting on getting my own way all the time, without regard to his feelings or needs, I was in some way diminishing myself.

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父亲又在这个时候生病了，所以母亲不得不考虑重归工作，这无疑是雪上加霜。

Father's illness at that time made matters worse and the mother had to plan to return to work.

youdao

父亲又在这个时候生病了，所以母亲不得不考虑重归工作，这无疑是雪上加霜。

Father's illness at that time made matters worse and the mother had to plan to return to work.

youdao