他们完全无能为力的想法突然变得不现实，更不用说令人讨厌了，所以他们反而会产生自己可能可以改变事情的想法。
The notion that they're utterly powerless suddenly seems unrealistic not to mention rather annoying so they're prompted instead to generate ideas about how they might change things.
当汤姆的父亲要求他支付其治疗费用时，他向他的父母抱怨说：“你们不但没有帮我，反而是我的负担！所以别再来找我了。”
When his father asked Tom to pay for his treatment, he complained to his parents, "You are not doing anything to help me, but instead are a burden to me! So, please don't come to me again."
还是说桑福德州长那个例子，无论是他或者是他妻子想要重归于好——她反而会尽力原谅他的不忠既然他也竭力试着和好。
In Governor Sanford's case, neither he nor is wife is doing that - instead she tried to forgive him for his infidelity while he tried to fall in love with her.
彭伯顿先生从去年夏天开始就不再偿付住房按揭贷款了，他说：“房子不再是我们的负累，反而成了救生筏。”
"Instead of the house dragging us down, it's become a life raft," said Mr. Pemberton, who stopped paying the mortgage on their house here last summer.
他没有帮我把它抓出来，反而向后一靠说：“它上二垒比我快多了”。
Instead of helping me get it out, my boyfriend leaned back and said, "it got to second base faster than I did."
如果说有什么变化的话，外国投资者不但没有停止购买美国资产，反而增加了购买速度。
Not only have foreigners not stopped buying US assets, if anything, they have increased the pace of purchases.
通过解释说，如果没有他们，正确的解释研究结果是非常困难的，这样反而能够取悦他们。
You can also flatter them some more by explaining that it will be difficult to correctly interpret the study results without them.
也就是说，如果你看到了这则广告，但是没有参与进去，那你反而成了少数。
So, you were in the minority if you saw the ad and you didn't engage with it.
活跃分子说，这反而会阻碍居民采取行动，反对切身的侵权行为。
This in turn will hamper citizens from taking action against perceived rights violations, activists say.
据孩子们说，当他们没有得到倾听，反而受到羞辱、不被尊重，处在尴尬的局面时，这种现象对他们造成更加严重的影响。
Research confirms this. Children report that being subjected to humiliation and disrespect, not listened to, and put in embarrassing situations have the most significant impact on them.
然而，专家说，在某些应用条件下，纳米材料反而不利，或是会在几十次充放电后发生衰减。
Still, in some applications, nano-materials gum up the works, or break down after a few dozen charges and discharges, experts say.
“我反而觉得自己被冒犯了，”他说，“因为在很多方面克雷格参议员和我是一样的——同样的年纪，来自同一种社会团体，生活在同一个年代。”
"I felt personally attacked," he said. "in many ways, Sen." Craig is the same age and from the same kind of community and same period of time as I am.
“这不仅仅是交换联系方式，”他说，“数字化越是流行，真实世界里的互动反而变得更加有意义——类似的，这个规则还适用于学术会议和社交活动。”
"It's way more than just contact info," he says. "the more prevalent digital becomes, the more meaningful interacting is in the real world - analogue still rules at conferences and events."
李先生说如今有很多人不愿只为了解世界动向而登入新闻网站，人们反而愿意通过微博看新闻。
Mr Lee said there are now people who do not bother logging onto news websites to find out what is going on in the world - they use microblogs instead.
“反而应该专注于受伤的感情，学会寻找周围的爱、美丽和善良，”罗斯金说。
"Instead of focusing on your wounded feelings, learn to look for the love, beauty and kindness around you," Luskin says.
美国已施加压力希望早日提出解决方案，但一些专家说这种企图反而适得其反。
The U.S. has been heating up pressure for an early resolution, but some experts say such attempts will only backfire.
比如说他如果决意要更多的权利来处理破产公司，这可能反而促成了他一直想避免的经济崩溃。
If he had pushed too hard for more powers to deal with failing firms, for instance, he might have precipitated the total collapse he sought to avoid.
也就是说，她们因为减肥反而变得更加不健康了。
That is, they become less healthy in response to weight loss.
专家说，如果环境变得太干净，消毒过度，反而不利于健康。
If the environment becomes too clean and too antiseptic, experts say, there can be health hazards.
托马拉：不是说我们不信任信心十足的专家，但有时专家不是那么确定时，我们反而更易被劝服。
Tormala: We don’t necessarily mistrust confident experts, but sometimes we’re more persuaded by experts who are not confident.
托马拉：不是说我们不信任信心十足的专家，但有时专家不是那么确定时，我们反而更易被劝服。
Tormala: We don't necessarily mistrust confident experts, but sometimes we're more persuaded by experts who are not confident.
让我吃惊的是他们拒绝了，他们说他们已经和投资者谈判谈了四个月了，现在不用谈判，他们反而更加高兴。
To my surprise, they said no—that they'd just spent four months dealing with investors, and they were actually a lot happier now that they didn't have to.
自认为并不可爱的人会发现，说出那些连自己都不会相信的话，不仅不会扭转他们对自己的消极看法，反而会强化这种看法。
People who view themselves as unlovable find saying that they are so unbelievable that it strengthens their own negative view rather than reversing it.
“这是对她的惩罚，”小偷说，“我小时候小偷小摸，把偷的东西带回家时，她不但不惩罚我，反而笑着说‘别让人看见。”’
"It is to punish her," he said. "When I was young I began stealing little things, and brought them home to mother."
哈姆雷特不听她的话，反而顶嘴说：“该受责备的是你。”
Hamlet would not listen to her, but answered back. He said, "It is you who are to blame."
招聘经理们说，有些人在公司里太爱自吹自擂，反而阻塞了自己的升迁之路。
When it comes to self-promotion in the workplace, hiring managers say some people go too far and block their path to the next level.
莱夫说：“女人不在简历中贴照片反而更好”。
Still, “women are better off not including a photo with their resumes,” said Ruffle.
莱夫说：“女人不在简历中贴照片反而更好”。
Still, “women are better off not including a photo with their resumes,” said Ruffle.
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