拔高孩子让他们做超出能力的事（只因为我们希望他们是最好的）可能会被孩子解释为“你还不够好”。

Pushing our kids beyond their capabilities (because we want the best for them) may be interpreted as “You’re not good enough.”

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如果你有能力取得你想得到的进步但却没有取得，这只是因为你的目标定义得还不够明确。

If you are not making the progress you would like to make and are capable of making, it is merely because your goals are not clearly defined.

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如果你有能力取得你想得到的进步但却没有取得，这只是因为你的目标定义得还不够明确。

If you are not making the progress you would like to make and are capable of making, it is merely because your goals are not clearly defined.

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