我认为在这其中的关键之一是，一旦你得到超过三，四个人在那里，你就会得到更多人，就会有更多的人觉得这可能是件有意义的事。
I think one of the keys in that is that one once you get more than three or four people there, the more people you get, the more other people are going to think something meaningful.
新办法：从周围的人那里获得帮助：不管是你的配偶、朋友或者同事，请他们“命令”你。
New way: Get some help from people around you: whether this is your spouse, friend or colleague, ask them to "monitor" you.
现在，说下你的上司是那种不喜欢从员工那里得到反馈的人的情况。
Now, let’s say you have the type of bosswho does not like to get feedback from employees.
因为你全神贯注的在那里，你意识到你所爱的人的存在是一件无比珍贵的事情。
Because you are fully there, you recognize the presence of your beloved as something very precious.
是你的销售人员，是站在收银台和客户服务部和外地代理那里的人。
It's your sales clerks, people at the checkout counter, customer service department, field agents and so forth.
我们通常认为自己面临的问题是巨大的，除非你去了医院，你就会看到那里有许多的人，他们的问题更严重。
We usually think that the problems we have are huge, although if you'll try to go to hospital，you'll see that there are a lot of people who have more severe problems.
如果你住在大都市地区(特别是波士顿和纽约)，那里有众多的创业者网络，在那里你可以从有经验的人那儿获得帮助和指导——而且是免费的。
If you're in a major metropolitan area (especially Boston and NYC) there are tons of networks for entrepreneurs where you can get help and mentoring from experienced people — for free.
若说你没有在那里，就必使那邦那国的人起誓说，实在是找不着你。
And whenever a nation or kingdom claimed you were not there, he made them swear they could not find you.
你怀念的那个地方，而实际是怀念那里的人。
Do you miss that place, but is actually miss the people there.
你在别人那里看到的是你需要从自己身上看到的。如果你被愤怒的人围绕，大概你也是一位愤怒的人。
What you see in others is what you need to see in yourself. If you are surrounded by angry people, you are probably an angry person, too.
如果你是喜欢泡咖啡店或吃餐馆的人，那么你一定会对某家或某几家的店面和室内装饰情有独钟，成为那里的老客户。
If you are like instant coffee shop or restaurant, then you must be of one or several stores and interior decoration, become old customers there.
你需要的是不断宣传你的产品或服务的拉拉队长，而不是只会站在那里等薪水的人。
You need cheer leaders promoting your product or service - not someone who is just there to collect a paycheck.
如果你想完全逃避情人节，那么你可以在沙特阿拉伯找到志同道合的人，在那里情人节是严令禁止的。该国甚至存在红玫瑰的黑市交易。
And if you want to avoid Valentine's Day altogether? You'll be in good company in Saudi Arabia, where it's strictly banned. There is even a black market for red roses.
方法是从你尊崇的人那里发现和学习他惯用的提问方法。
By discovering and modeling the habitual questions of people you respect.
在那里，你是一个真真正正的人，而不只是一个螺丝钉。
在六年级，你心目中的好朋友是那个走到你喜欢的尼克或苏姗那里请他们与你跳舞，这样如果他们不同意你就不用感到难堪的人。
In sixth grade your idea of a friend was the person who went up to Nicky or Susan, your new crush, and asked them to dance with you, so that if they said no you wouldn't have to be embarrassed.
李：你知道吗?有个叫湘潭的小县城，那里的人们非常喜欢槟榔。他们把槟榔当成是送礼和待客的非常尊贵的东西。
Lee: You know? There is a small county called Xiang Tan, people there love arecas very much. They regard arecas as honorable gifts to give and treat their guest.
向他人声明你的新习惯，是从你身边的人那里得到支持的最好方式，这也是让你能说话算数的一个很好方式。
Declaring your new habit to others is a great way of getting support from people around you, and it's a great way of adding a healthy dose of accountability to your situation too.
门1 ：12我现在打发他亲自回你那里去，他是我心上的人。
Philemon 1 : 12 Whom I have sent again: thou therefore receive him, that is, mine own bowels.
那什么是悲观呢？悲观是当你遇到问题，你不会迎头挑战，只会像缩头乌龟一样，紧紧的缩在那里，表示你是一个很胆小的人。
What is pessimistic? Pessimism is when you meet problems, you can't challenge head-on, will only like little puss-head, tightly in there, says you are a very timid person.
如果你相信某人可以告诉你餐馆食物的真相，那么一定得是在那里工作的人。
If there's anyone you can trust to tell you the truth about restaurant meals, it's the people who work there.
一个问题是你不会从一个从经历过这种事的人那里得到过多同情。
One problem is that you won't get much sympathy from those who never went through it.
有时候，对的那个人其实一直就在那里，你看不到，只不过是错的人遮住了你的视线。
Sometimes the right person for you was there all along. You just didn't see it because the wrong one was blocking the sight.
他们下降的唯一的地方是在那些已经在那里的人，你介绍STIFORP现在！
THE ONLY PLACE for them to fall is UNDER the ONES WHO ARE ALREADY in there AND the people you introduce STIFORP to right NOW!
他们下降的唯一的地方是在那些已经在那里的人，你介绍STIFORP现在！
THE ONLY PLACE for them to fall is UNDER the ONES WHO ARE ALREADY in there AND the people you introduce STIFORP to right NOW!
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