人们往往没有意识到，你应该经常问自己的第一个问题是，这真的只是众所周知的伪装吗?
People tend not to realize that the first question you should always ask yourself, is this really just something that's well-known in disguise?
这已经不是你第一次意识到自己处于这种情形了。
It's not the first time that you've found yourself in this situation.
这并不是说你需要承担一切的过失，或者承担责任然后远离他人，而是要意识到，我们不是受害者，而是生活的参与者。
This isn't to say you're taking all the blame, or taking responsibility away from the other person, but to realize that we are not victims but participants in life.
接受那些限制你的时间和自由的责任和义务，因为这似乎是正确的，或者因为你在接受的时候没有意识到后果？
Accepting commitments and obligations that restrict your time or freedom because it seems right or because you didn't realize the consequences when you accepted it?
而重要的是，你必需意识到，姓氏和名字更改拼法，这中状况可不会只是出现在遥远的过去喔。
It is more important to be aware that both surnames and forenames are subject to variations in spelling, and not only in the distant past.
在自恋的父母教养下或找个自恋狂结婚会让你也一样“废”，但这仅仅从定义上讲，很多自恋狂生活时没有意识到自己对他人的伤害。
Growing up with a narcissistic parent or marrying one can be disabling, but, almost by definition, many narcissists go through life without realizing the harm they are doing to others.
把时间想象成自己拥有的财富是很有用的，因为这让你更容易意识到对它的浪费。
Thinking of time as something you own is useful. Would you find it so easy to waste something if you knew you owned it?
这让你意识到男人和女人人到底有多不协调了。
It makes you realize, however, how not in tune men and women can be.
你难以意识到这涉及到了某些个体(包括你自己)，更不抑制，更不尴尬，更不关心别人对你的评价。
You become less conscious of the individuals involved [including yourself], less inhibited, less embarrassed and less concerned about how you will be evaluated.
这世上恐怕没有比求知欲旺盛的孩子的疑问更能让你意识到钱这玩意儿有多复杂了。
There is nothing like an inquisitive child to make you realize just how complicated the topic of money is.
但当然了，这状似可靠的虚幻感甚至不能长久。当你被解雇或者下岗的时候，你就会立刻意识到这份幻觉是多么的不堪一击。
But of course, even convincing illusions don't last. If you're ever fired or laid off, you quickly realize how flimsy the illusion really was.
但这并不意味着你没有意识到秘密已经泄露了，当然情绪混乱的感觉不会再感觉到了，它不在那里了，这不是那个维度应有的经历。
But your sense of involvement, and certainly emotional involvement, it simply will not be there. And it is not intended to be there.
我意识到的第一件事是，如果你不喜欢现在的生活，这没问题。
The first thing to realize is that if in your life, in your current situation, you don't like "what is," that's okay.
我意识到的第一件事是，如果你不喜欢现在的生活，这没问题。
The first thing to realize is that if in your life, in your current situation, you don’t like “what is,” that’s okay.
这令她意识到：“人们可以带走你的至爱，但带不走你的处事方式。
This led her toa recognition: “People can take away your loved ones. But they can’t take awaythe way you respond to things.”
最后，Monet表示，“女性要明白，只有当你那超重的丈夫（或男朋友或伴侣）真正意识到自己需要减肥时，他才会去做，也许有时候这让你不平衡。”
Ultimately, Monet says: "You have to realize that your overweight husband (or boyfriend or partner) is only going to lose weight when he wants to, which sometimes leaves you out of the equation."
你上太空的时候，我挺难受的。因为这让我意识到，只要是个人就能被太空总署送上去。
When you got to go space, it was hard for me. Because it made me realize they'll just send anyone up there.
你的白痴记者难道没有意识到，他们能够“重温沉没”的唯一方法就是让船上每个人搭载这艘复制品往下沉没吗？
Doesn't your idiot reporter realise that the only way that they can "relive the sinking" is if they actually sink the replica with everybody on board.
噢，我们意识到这点，但是这不是永久的离开。你还能回来…但是这…这会给你机会弄明白事情。
Oh, we realize that, but it wouldn't have to be forever. You could come back... but it... it would give you a chance to figure things out.
不过，你要知道，这世界上很多人都是这样不择手段，我们有责任在陷入一段关系之前就意识到并提高警惕。
Still, knowing that many people in the world are just that unscrupulous, it's our responsibility to enter relationship aware and wary.
不太清楚。我想也许是经理还没意识到这信息的重要性。你能帮我调查一下吗?。
Not sure, I just think the manager doesn't realize the importance of this information. Could you look into that for me?
如果你很清楚地意识到走了一条与自己规划不符的道路，不要害怕停下来重新考虑它。尽管这意味着你要绞尽脑汁将一切重新开始。
If you clearly see you're going into the wrong direction with your strategy do not be afraid to stop and rethink everything even if it means you have to start everything from scratch.
这意味着你更有吸引力，这样一来你更有可能意识到自己的吸引力，而且变得更有吸引力。
This means you're more attractive. By being more attractive, you're more likely to realize your attraction and act more attractive.
这将是足以听到什么，就是已设计了这个项目，你就会意识到这确实是令人难以置信的公司名称。
It will be enough to hear what's the name of the company that has designed this project and you'll realize how incredible this really is.
你上太空的时候，我挺难受的。因为这让我意识到，只要是个人就能被太空总署送上去。——《生活大爆炸》。
When you got to go space, it was hard for me. Because it made me realize they'll just send anyone up there.
你难道没有意识到这意味着什么吗！
但是，你没有意识到，所以我也不再对这说任何话了。
他补充道，“是啊，你可以花2万美金买到一栋房子，但是你很快就会意识到，这么做是危险的，学校很糟糕，这所有的工作都在郊区。”
"Yeah, you can buy a house for $20,000, but pretty quickly you realise that it's dangerous, the schools suck and all of the jobs are in the suburbs, " he says.
他补充道，“是啊，你可以花2万美金买到一栋房子，但是你很快就会意识到，这么做是危险的，学校很糟糕，这所有的工作都在郊区。”
"Yeah, you can buy a house for $20,000, but pretty quickly you realise that it's dangerous, the schools suck and all of the jobs are in the suburbs, " he says.
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