如果成功孕育宿敌，那么打败自己的敌人岂不是意味着你很失败？
If success breeds enemies, must one become unsuccessful to rid himself of enemies?
别让情绪干扰你的成功EQ差的人，很容易被情绪打败，只有完全与情绪分开来，这样才会战胜自己，才不会踏上失败的路程。
EQ poor people, it is easy feeling defeated, only completely separate and emotional, as this will defeat themselves, the failure will not set foot distance.
当然，最终我们所有人不得不为自己决定什么是失败的组成元素，但是如果你愿意的话，世界很愿意给你一堆的标准。
Ultimately, we all have to decide for ourselves what constitutes failure, but the world is quite eager to give you a set of criteria if you let it.
所以，即便你一再地失败，你依然在你的脑海中构建这些新的道路，最终使你感觉这一变化是很自然的事情。
So even if you fail over and over again, you're still building these new pathways in your brain and eventually the change will start to feel natural.
避免失败能让你觉得自己很成功。毕竟失败不是件好事，对吧？
Avoiding failure makes you feel successful. After all, failure is bad. Right?
老师和老板都或多或少觉得自己对你有那么点儿责任，如果你很努力又失败了，他们可能会再给你一次机会。
Professors and bosses usually feel some sense of responsibility toward you; if you make a valiant effort and fail, they'll cut you a break.
你或许会很惊奇，即便这个提议失败了，它有可能会引导你走向一个解决方案。
You might be surprised. Even if the proposed solution doesn't work, it may help you find a solution.
对新计划雄心壮志是很容易的；由于第一缕积极向上的曙光的沐浴，你会特别坚决以致于你都无法想象失败。
It’s easy to get gung-ho about a new plan; in that first flush of motivation, you feel so determined that you can’t imagine failing.
你可以试着去控制他人，但是通常会很纠结，在某种程度上，总是会失败。
You can try to control others, but there will always be a struggle, and you’ll always fail to some degree.
不过我认为，你未必是很要强：看着自己的孩子失败是一件可怕的事，孩子年龄越大就越糟糕，因为你也无能为力。
I don't think you're necessarily pushy: it's horrid to watch your child fail, and the older the child the worse, as there is little you can do.
当你被恐惧吓住，你很容易注意到负面情况比如工作艰难啦可能会失败啦。
When you stuck in fear and inaction it’s very easy to just focus on the negative aspects such as it being hard work or the risk of pain or failure.
也许很残忍，即便你是袋中之神，如果我们还向我们的女伴说如下的话可是言语上的失败。
Maybe it’s cruel, but even if you’re a total god in the sack, it’s the verbal slipup that we’ll replay for our girlfriends.
你现在才二十多呢，等着看那些你现在很嫉妒的人在之后会遭遇的宏伟的巨大的失败吧。
You are in your twenties, so be prepared to witness some epic personal collapses of those whom you are currently envious of.
所以，很容易又回到如果你不承担责任，就永远不会失败这个理念上。
So it's easy to fall back on the idea that if you don't take responsibility, you'll never fail.
关注，关注，还是关注……没有什么比集中注意力更重要的了。如果你的一生很失败，那是因为你没有集中注意力。
Focus, focus, focus... Nothing is more critical than focus. If you fail in this lifetime, you will fail because of broken focus.
在一个新计划中，很容易在开始时对你的目标感到兴奋，变得过于雄心勃勃……然后失败了。
With a new plan, it's easy to start getting excited about your goals, become over-ambitious... and then fail.
不过我认为，你未必是很要强：看着自己的孩子失败是一件可怕的事，孩子年龄越大就越糟糕，因为你也无能为力。
I don "t think you" re necessarily pushy: it "s horrid to watch your child fail, and the older the child the worse, as there is little you can do."
我很遗憾得告诉你你考试失败。
我很遗憾，你这次考试竟然失败了。
在制作过程中太容易变得疲劳和失败了，很容易会同意某些愚蠢的举动并且降低你的标准。
It's all too easy to be tired and frustrated and accede to something dumb and lower your standards.
灯熄了，一定是停电了。 我考试失败了。你一定认为我很笨吧。
你很确信已经克服了饮食陋习，那又是什么导致了减肥失败？
You felt certain that you had conquered bad eating habits-so what caused the backslide?
如果你在读博士期间，你没有感觉到沮丧或者愚蠢，那么你肯定不够努力，并且从好科研的本质来讲，是很失败的。
If you are not feeling frustrated and stupid in your Ph. D study, you are not trying hard enough, and are, by the very nature of good research, failing.
当今社会充满着激烈的竞争，你的成功意味着其他人的失败，你的存在意味着他人的消失，这听起来很残酷，但现实的确如此。
Ours is a society full of fierce competitions. Your success means the other's defeat, your existence means the other's disappearance. It's very ruthless and evil.
冒险吧。如果赢了，你会很开心；如果失败了，你会获得智慧。
Take risks: if you win, you will be happy; if you lose, you will be wise.
冒险吧。如果赢了，你会很开心；如果失败了，你会获得智慧。
Take risks: if you win, you will be happy; if you lose, you will be wise.
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